I’ve been thinking a lot about coaching this week — maybe because I’ve been coaching a lot this week!
In the early part of the week I had the chance to participate in a corporate training for a leading management consulting firm thanks to my colleagues at Performance of A Lifetime (http://performanceofalifetime.com) who hired me as a coach and role player for this gig. Our fantastic, talented team of improviser/role players spent the day being interviewed by teams of young consultants (fresh out of college); at the end of the day each of us coached teams of these young consultants based on feedback from those interviews.
Later in the week, I had coaching sessions with a few of my young colleagues at a client company where I’m the “communication specialist”.
It’s wonderful to give young people the chance to use performance as a tool for growth, no matter what the context! It’s very gratifying to share how performance helps us grow and develop.
Yesterday I had the pleasure of watching a video of a talk that one of my mentors, Dr. Fred Newman, gave at Town Hall back in 1997 on “performance therapy”. Fred is the chief architect of the methodology that I was trained in (and that Performance of A Lifetime utilizes in their work). As always Fred had many thought provoking things to share; given what’s been on my mind this week this sentence jumped out at me:
“We have the capacity to transform ourselves in a moment through performance.”
What got me thinking was this notion of transforming ourselves in a moment. Our psychologically-overdetermined culture sends the message that transformation is about introspection, explanation and knowing — and that it can take years of therapy! Along comes Fred Newman saying that we can tranform ourselves in a moment!
When Newman talks about performance therapy he is acknowledging the essential human activity of being who we are and who we are not at the same time. Each of us has the capacity and can make the choice, moment-to-moment, to perform — to be other than who we are — and thereby to transform ourselves.
For more information about Newman, performance therapy/social therapy, and learning more about the performance approach see the website of the East Side Institute at http://www.eastsideinstitute.org